You Are The Problem And The Solution

What if I told you that you are the problem and the solution in your life?

Are you financially free? If not, you’re the problem and the solution.

Is there something missing in your life? If so, you’re the problem and the solution.

Is that a good thing or a bad thing? Find out now.

Don’t Blame Anyone And Take Responsibility For Everything

Don’t blame others because blaming others won’t solve your problems. When was the last time you blamed somebody else and it solved your problem?

If you blame your parents for not being rich will that make you rich? If you blame God for not fixing your problems, will your problems magically disappear? The answers to those questions are no and no. Stop blaming others.

Only you can solve your problems and it starts with taking responsibility for your situation. If you decide to take responsibility for your problems, then you can actually do something about it. If you continue to blame others, nothing will change. It is your decision whether you will live life as a person who makes things happen or lets things happen.

Understand that in most situations involving yourself, you are the problem and the solution. You are the common denominator in all your problems. Every problem you ever had, was caused because of something you did, whether you were at the wrong place at the wrong time, you said the wrong thing at the wrong time, or you did the wrong thing at the wrong time; you are the problem.

It’s not a great feeling knowing that you’re the problem, but doesn’t it feel great to now that you’re also the solution? You have the power to turn bad into good. There is always something you can do to fix your situation.

Take Emotions Out Of The Game

Emotions will make you weak and cloud your thinking. Don’t make decisions based on emotions, you will probably regret in the future.

Make decisions based on logic, and common sense. If you see an attractive man or woman on the street and you would like to meet him/her, the only way to actually meet him/her would be to walk up and strike up a conversation. Your emotions will tell you it’s awkward or weird, but logically you know that there is no other way to meet a stranger other than to walk up to him/her and say something.

If you’re not experiencing success, your emotions are against you, therefore, you need to learn to manage your emotions and take actions no matter how you feel. Once you show your emotions who is boss they will begin to support you.

Find Your Motivation And Develop Self Discipline

In order to change your situation and take big actions towards finding a solution to a problem, you need some form of a motivational push. Find your “why” or a reason to take actions despite emotions such as fear, uncertainty, anxiety, etc….

Develop self-discipline by taking actions towards a solution on a daily basis.

Conquer Your Fears And Move Towards Resistance

When you’re striving for success, you will be faced with fear and resistance. On the other side of fear and resistance is certainty, strength, and success. If you can grasp the idea that you need to move towards resistance and fear to change your life for the better, you can have whatever you like.

Feeling fear means you’re headed in the right direction and eventually that fear will become a thing of the past.

You are your worst enemy, but you’re also your greatest ally. You are the problem and the solution.